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Heatwave Sex — How to Want Each Other When It's 95°F at Midnight

Editorial collage of an ice cube melting beside a paper sun cutout and a small fan, on a pastel pool-blue background.
2026

Heatwave Sex — How to Want Each Other When It's 95°F at Midnight

A 2026 summer-survival guide for couples whose sex life melts every July — what cooling lube actually does, why a fan beats AC for libido, and the positions that don't generate heat.

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couples

The Summer Vacation Sex Hack — What to Pack (and What to Skip) in 2026

A practical 2026 packing list for couples chasing better vacation sex — what fits in a carry-on, what TSA waves through, and which "essentials" are actually a waste of suitcase space.

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communication

The Compersion Conversation: When Monogamous Couples Borrow a Word From Polyamory

"Compersion" — a word from polyamory for joy at a partner's pleasure with someone else — has been quietly drifting into monogamous couples' vocabulary in 2026. What the borrowing means, and what it...

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communication

Dear La Pepa: My Partner Won't Try a Toy

Three composite letters from readers whose partners shut down the toy conversation — and the practical, non-coercive replies we'd send back.

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Editorial collage for a Memorial Day weekend couples post — a vintage transistor radio, a coiled pink ribbon, a calla lily and a soft sparkle, on a sky-blue-to-coral pastel gradient.
couples

Memorial Day Weekend, Decoded: Three Ways Couples Make the Long Weekend Actually Feel Different

A practical, non-romantic-getaway take on Memorial Day weekend for couples — three small ways to make the long weekend feel different from a regular Saturday, with or without a trip.

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couples

The 'Sleep Divorce' Trend: Why More Couples Sleep Apart — and What It's Doing to Their Sex Lives

Sleep divorce went from taboo to wellness trend in 2026. Here's what it does to a couple's sex life — and why some couples report it as the best thing that ever happened to their intimacy.

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couples

Pride 2026 Pleasure Picks: Toys That Celebrate Every Body

A Pride 2026 gift guide built around anatomy, comfort, and shared pleasure — four inclusive picks under $100 that work for every body and every kind of partnership.

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Sex after prostatectomy — a complete recovery guide
couples

Sex without prostate: a complete guide for a fulfilling intimate life

A practical, judgment-free guide to sex after prostate removal — what changes physically and emotionally, which medical and non-medical options actually help, how to communicate with a partner, and...

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communication

Know your partner sexually: the keys to real intimacy

A practical guide to getting to know your partner sexually — the conversations that matter, how to ask about preferences without pressure, aftercare, solving desire mismatches, and the habits that ...

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How to bring up sex toys with your partner without making it weird
communication

How to bring up sex toys with your partner (without making it weird)

A practical script for suggesting sex toys to your partner — when to bring it up, how to frame it, the objections that come up and how to handle them, plus the toys that make the easiest first step.

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