Letters to La Pepa

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Dear La Pepa — I've Never Had an Orgasm with a Partner. Am I Broken?

A reader letter on never having had a partnered orgasm — what's actually going on, why it's far more common than people think, and the four-week reset that fixes it for most.

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Letters to La Pepa

Dear La Pepa: My Girlfriend Wants to Peg Me and I'm Quietly Terrified

A reader writes in about his girlfriend's pegging request and his own nervous system. Our reply — what's normal, what helps, and how to know if you're a yes, a no, or a not-yet.

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Dear La Pepa: My SSRI Killed My Libido — and I Don't Want to Stop the Medication

An honest letter from a reader on antidepressants, and our reply — what's normal, what helps, and how to talk to your prescriber without losing the meds that are keeping you well.

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Letters to La Pepa

Dear La Pepa: My Partner Won't Try a Toy

Three composite letters from readers whose partners shut down the toy conversation — and the practical, non-coercive replies we'd send back.

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Letters to La Pepa

Dear La Pepa: 'I Faked It for Years — How Do I Walk It Back?'

Three composite reader letters on faking orgasms — why people do it, what it costs, and exactly how to start telling the truth without blowing up the relationship.

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